10 things you need to plan a successful addiction intervention: 7 steps to services that work!

In today’s post, we’ll show you exactly how to successfully plan an addiction intervention for your loved one and help them get into addiction treatment services that work.

 

Drug & Alcohol interventionists Andy Bhatti & Geri Bemister, offer Addiction Intervention Services in Calgary, Edmonton, Red Deer, Grand Prairie, and all over Alberta, to help loved ones overcome addiction.

 

An intervention can motivate the individual to seek help for alcohol, drug abuse, gambling addiction, or any other addictive behaviors like prescription pill abuse, and sex addiction. Our interventionists will help your family discover when to hold the intervention and how to make it successful. Addiction Intervention specialist Andy Bhatti is a recipient of the Courage to Come Back Award, Founder of Survivors Supporting Survivors, and has been helping families with addiction intervention services for over 10 years. His colleague Geri Bemister is the Intervention Specialist for the hit TV show Intervention Canada and has also been performing interventions for over 13 years. Geri Bemister is also a Criminology Professor, a recipient of the Courage to Come Back Award, and an advocate for change for indigenous people and their rights.

 

It’s stressful for families who are trying to help a loved one struggling with any type of addiction, alcoholism, and mental health issues because the person with the problem often struggles to see it and acknowledge it. Sometimes a direct, heart-to-heart conversation can make things worse because the family members trying to hold their intervention are not trained professionals with decades of experience and hundreds of proven interventions like Andy and Geri.

 

Family members can take action through a formal intervention, but the intervention specialist will lead the whole intervention in Alberta.

 

A safer and more focused approach is often what is needed.

You may need to contact an intervention specialist like Andy Bhatti or Geri Bemister.

 

Let’s dive right in.

 

  • Addictions you may want to have interventions for
  • What is an intervention?
  • Can the intervention happen in Alberta?
  • How does an intervention work?
  • Consult an addiction interventionist in Calgary, Alberta
  • Importance of having an Addiction Intervention professional
  • Who should be on the intervention team?
  • Who shouldn’t be on the intervention team?
  • How to find a treatment program to offer at the intervention
  • 10 tips to help ensure a successful intervention
  • If treatment is necessary, initiate arrangements in advance
  • If your loved one refuses the help

 

Here are some common examples of addictions that you may want to think about having an intervention for.

* Alcoholism

* Drinking too much during the workweek

* Prescription drug abuse

* Street drug abuse

* Cocaine abuse 

* Compulsive eating

* Compulsive gambling

* Compulsive shopping

 

People who struggle with addiction are often in denial about their situation and unwilling to seek treatment. They may not even recognize the negative effect it has on their behavior or how it affects their marriage or children’s life. Addiction and Alcoholism affect the whole family and even close friends. 

 

An intervention gives your loved one with an addiction problem, a structured opportunity to make changes before things get even worse. It can motivate him or her to seek or accept the help that’s being offered at the intervention, without having to hear all the serious consequences and healthy boundaries that will be put in place by the loved ones. Our interventions are about care, concern, and love, but sometimes that love needs to be serious tough love. Those are boundaries, and those healthy boundaries can save your loved ones’ life.

 

What is an intervention? Can the Intervention happen at home in Alberta? 

An intervention is a carefully planned process that may be done by family and friends, in consultation with a doctor or professional such as a licensed alcohol and drug counselor, or directed by an intervention professional (interventionist). It sometimes involves a member of your loved one’s faith or others who care about the person struggling with addiction.

 

During the intervention, these people gather together to confront their loved ones about the consequences of addiction and ask them to accept treatment.

young people discussing drug issues

 

The intervention:

  • Provides specific examples of destructive behaviors and their impact on your loved one with the addiction, their family, and friends.
  • Offers a prearranged treatment plan with clear steps, goals, and guidelines.
  • Spells out what each person will do if your loved one refuses to accept treatment.

 

So how does an intervention work?

 

A successful intervention usually includes the following 7 steps:

 

  1. Make a plan. A family member or friend proposes an intervention and forms a planning group. It’s best if you consult with a qualified professional counselor, an addiction professional, a psychologist, a mental health counselor, a social worker, or an interventionist to help you organize an effective intervention. An intervention is a highly charged situation with the potential to cause anger, resentment, or a sense of betrayal.
  2. Gather information. The group members find out about the extent of your loved one’s problem and research the condition and treatment programs. The group may initiate arrangements to enroll your loved one in a specific treatment program.
  3. Form the intervention team. The planning group forms a team that will personally participate in the intervention. Team members set a date and location and work together to present a consistent, rehearsed message and a structured plan. Often, nonfamily members of the team help keep the discussion focused on the facts of the problem and share solutions rather than strong emotional responses. Don’t let your loved one know what you’re doing until the day of the intervention.
  4. Decide on specific consequences. If your loved one doesn’t accept treatment, each person on the team needs to decide what action he or she will take. For example, you may decide to ask your loved one to move out.
  5. Make notes on what to say. Each team member describes specific incidents where the addiction caused problems, such as emotional or financial issues. Discuss the toll of your loved one’s behavior while still expressing care and the expectation that he or she can change. Your loved one can’t argue with facts or with your emotional response to the problem. For example, begin by saying “I was upset and hurt when you drank …”
  6. Hold the intervention meeting. Without revealing the reason, your loved one with the addiction is asked to the intervention site. Members of the team then take turns expressing their concerns and feelings. Your loved one is presented with a treatment option and asked to accept that option on the spot. Each team member will say what specific changes he or she will make if your loved one doesn’t accept the plan. Don’t threaten a consequence unless you’re ready to follow through with it.
  7. Follow up. Involving a spouse, family members or others is critical to help someone with an addiction stay in treatment and avoid relapsing. This can include changing patterns of everyday living to make it easier to avoid destructive behavior, offering to participate in counseling with your loved one, seeking therapist and recovery support, and knowing what to do if relapse occurs.

 

A successful intervention must be planned carefully to work as intended. A poorly planned intervention can worsen the situation — your loved one may feel attacked and become isolated or more resistant to treatment.

 

Consult an addiction interventionist in Calgary, Alberta

Consulting an addiction professional, such as a licensed alcohol and drug counselor, a social worker, a psychologist, a psychiatrist, or an interventionist, can help you organize an effective intervention. An addiction professional will take into account your loved one’s particular circumstances, suggest the best approach, and help guide you in what type of treatment and follow-up plan is likely to work best.

 

Importance of having an Addiction Intervention Professional

Often interventions are conducted without an intervention professional, but having expert help may be preferable.

 

intervention strategy

 

It may be especially important to have the professional attend the actual intervention to help you stay on track if your loved one:

  • Has a history of serious mental illness
  • Has a history of violence
  • Has shown suicidal behavior or recently talked about suicide
  • May be taking several mood-altering substances

 

It’s very important to consult an intervention professional if you suspect your loved one may react violently or self-destructively.

 

Who should be on the intervention team?

An intervention team usually includes four to six people who are important in the life of your loved one — people he or she loves, likes, respects or depends on. This may include, for example, a best friend, adult relatives, or a member of your loved one’s faith. Your intervention professional can help you determine the appropriate members for your team.

 

Who should not be on the intervention team?

Don’t include anyone who:

  • Your loved one dislikes
  • Has an unmanaged mental health issue or substance abuse problem
  • May not be able to limit what he or she says to what you agreed on during the planning meeting
  • Might sabotage the intervention

 

If you think it’s important to have someone involved but worry that it may create a problem during the intervention, consider having that person write a short letter that someone else can read at the intervention.

 

How do you find a treatment program to offer at the intervention?

An evaluation by an addiction professional can help determine the extent of the problem and identify appropriate treatment options. Treatment options can vary in intensity and scope and occur in a variety of settings. Options can include brief early intervention, outpatient treatment, or day treatment programs. More severe problems may require admittance into a structured program, treatment facility, or hospital.

Treatment may include things like counseling, education, vocational services, family services, and life skills training. For example, Mayo Clinic offers a variety of addiction services and has a comprehensive team approach to treating addiction.

 

If a treatment program is necessary, it may help to initiate arrangements in advance.

Do some research, keeping these points in mind:

  • Ask a trusted addiction professional, doctor, or mental health professional about the best treatment approach for your loved one and recommendations about programs.
  • Contact national organizations, trusted online support groups, or local clinics for treatment programs or advice.
  • Find out if your insurance plan will cover the treatment you’re considering.
  • Find out what steps are required for admission, such as an evaluation appointment, insurance pre-certification, and whether there’s a waiting list.
  • Be wary of treatment centers promising quick fixes, and avoid programs that use uncommon methods or treatments that seem potentially harmful.
  • If the program requires travel, make arrangements ahead of time — consider having a packed suitcase ready for your loved one.

 

It also may be appropriate to ask your loved one to seek support from a group such as Alcoholics Anonymous.

 

The 10 best tips to help ensure a successful intervention.

Keep in mind, that your loved one’s addiction involves intense emotions. The process of organizing the intervention and the intervention itself can cause conflict, anger, and resentment even among family and friends who know your loved one needs their help. To help run a successful intervention:

 

(1) Don’t hold an intervention on the spur of the moment. It can take several weeks to plan an effective intervention. However, don’t make it too elaborate, either, or it may be difficult to get everyone to follow through.

(2) Plan the time of the intervention. Make sure you choose a date and time when your loved one is least likely to be under the influence of alcohol or drugs.

(3) Do your homework. Research your loved one’s addiction or substance abuse issue so that you have a good understanding of it.

(4) Appoint a single person to act as a liaison. Having one point of contact for all team members will help you communicate and stay on track.

(5) Share information. Make sure each team member has the same information about your loved one’s addiction and the intervention so that everyone is on the same page. Hold meetings or conference calls to share updates and agree to present a united team.

(6) Stage a rehearsal intervention. Here, you can decide who will speak when, sitting arrangements, and other details, so there’s no fumbling during the real intervention with your loved one.

(7) Anticipate your loved one’s objections. Have calm, rational responses prepared for each reason your loved one may give to avoid treatment or responsibility for behavior. Offer support that makes it easier to engage in the treatment, such as arranging child care or attending counseling sessions with your loved one.

(8) Avoid confrontation. Deal with your loved one with love, respect, support, and concern — not anger. Be honest, but don’t use the intervention as a forum for hostile attacks. Avoid name-calling and angry or accusing statements.

(9) Stay on track during the intervention. Veering from the plan can quickly derail an intervention, prevent a helpful outcome for your loved one, and worsen family tensions. Be prepared to remain calm in the face of your loved one’s accusations, hurt, or anger, which is often meant to deflect or derail the conversation.

(10) Ask for an immediate decision. Don’t give your loved one time to think about whether to accept the treatment offer, even if he or she asks for a few days to think it over. Doing so allows your loved one to continue denying a problem, go into hiding or go on a dangerous binge. Be prepared to get your loved one into an evaluation to start treatment immediately if he or she agrees to the plan.

 

Midsection of woman discussing with group during psychotherapy. Female is sharing experience during therapy session. They are in community center.

 

If your loved one refuses help

Unfortunately, not all interventions are successful. In some cases, your loved one with an addiction may refuse the treatment plan. He or she may erupt in anger or insist that help is not needed or may be resentful and accuse you of betrayal or being a hypocrite.

Emotionally prepare yourself for these situations, while remaining hopeful for positive change. If your loved one doesn’t accept treatment, be prepared to follow through with the changes you presented.

 

Often, children, partners, siblings, and parents are subjected to abuse, violence, threats, and emotional upheaval because of alcohol and drug problems. You don’t have control over the behavior of your loved one with the addiction. However, you do have the ability to remove yourself — and any children — from a destructive or harmful situation.

Even if an intervention doesn’t work, you and others involved in your loved one’s life can make changes that may help. Ask other people involved to avoid enabling the destructive cycle of behavior and take active steps to encourage positive change.

 

Conclusion:

Staging an intervention for a loved one with an addiction is challenging and outcomes are more successful with the help of an addiction intervention professional. Andy Bhatti and Geri Bemister have successfully supported hundreds of families and their loved ones through interventions and can help with treatment placements all over the world. They have helped many addicted individuals and their families in Alberta get help from what seemed like hopeless situations and have supported them in a new way of life.

 

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