01 Nov Addiction intervention Canada
Codependency with Substances in Canada
Overcoming a co-dependent relationship is never easy, especially when the relationship
is with an addiction, and denial doesn’t make it any easier. For those fighting and those
supporting a family member or a friend with addiction issues or alcoholism, an
the intervention will help you avoid delays in getting your loved one into an addiction
treatment center in Canada.
Those with an addiction or alcoholism often fail to comprehend how their addiction is
hurting the whole family. Not just the person suffering from addiction. Many family
members don’t realize the codependency of the relationship their loved ones have with
substances and/or alcohol. The seriousness is often minimized because they don’t
understand what addiction is.
When family members search the internet for solutions to get their loved one help with
their addiction. The options seem confusing and can be overwhelming. Many family
members think they know what’s right for their loved one, but if they knew then they
wouldn’t be in the position they are currently in. 98% of family members in Canada are
not educated on addiction or mental health issues.
Important Things to Know About Interventions
- Ultimately, there are 5 important things to know at all times about an intervention.
They are as follows:
- An intervention is a strategic plan to help a loved one to seek treatment for their
addiction or mental health issues.
- The goal of the intervention is to ensure the person who is addicted gets the proper help
and support they need to be successful long term.
- An intervention is not to attack, shame, judge, or blame the person for their past
behaviours on drugs or alcohol.
- The Intervention is all about creating a safe, loving, and healthy environment for all that
are participating in the intervention.
- Interventions can be really emotional, chaotic, argumentative, and difficult, but they are
worth it in the long run, once the person suffering from addiction accepts help.
How Does an Addiction Intervention Work?
Intervention is, in essence, a meeting between family, colleagues, or friends which takes
place in the presence of the addict and most sensibly, a professional addiction
The counsellor will take a guiding charge over the meeting and will control the flow of
the discussion. This ensures that charged emotions are kept at bay on both sides of the
The nature of this professional intervention often means the addict will take the
proceedings seriously from the start. The meeting aims to ensure the addict fully
appreciates the health implications of his or her addiction. That way the addict
understands addiction to drugs and alcohol is considered a medical illness like any
What kind of substance abuse issues can be intervened on?
At Andy Bhatti Interventions and Addiction Services, we have years of experience in
treating all sorts of substance addictions, mental health disorders, and other behavioural
issues. The three main problems we are dedicated to helping, and the three most
common types of addictions that require interventions are:
Prescription drug use
- Prescription drug use becomes a problem when someone begins to use prescription
drugs outside of the direction of a doctor, in larger quantities than the doctor recommended, or more often than recommended.
- Prescription drug use becomes a problem when someone begins to use prescription
- Drug abuse is the overuse of addiction to or dependency on drugs
- Gaming Addiction
- Gaming addiction in Canada has been affecting teenagers and adults lived for years. Many people addicted to gaming don’t even realize it. How their life is so out of control because they don’t leave the house. University Students in Canada grades have been dropping because of serious online gaming addiction.
How do I know if it’s the right time for an intervention?
A key aspect of interventions is timing. It is easy to postpone an intervention for fear of
upsetting or even worsening the habits, of the addict in question. Furthermore, the fact
that you love and care for the person who is suffering makes it even more difficult for
you and those who also want to intervene to broach the topic of getting help for an
However, it is integral to remember that in the long run, intervention could save your
loved one’s life. Although it may be difficult to accept and undergo.
The following are some of the main signs that an intervention is needed:
- Secretive behaviour
- Borrowing lots of money
- Legal or financial problems
- Frequent aggression
- Mood swings
- Distancing from people
- Deteriorating appearance
- Issues at work/school
- Health problems
- Building tolerance to substances
Do I Need Help from a Professional Interventionist?
If you have a friend, colleague, or family member who is unfortunate enough to suffer
from drug or alcohol addiction then it is likely you are unsure how to help the person
For this reason, professional addiction intervention is often the smartest move you could
make in ensuring your friend, colleague, or loved one receives the help they deserve.
Choosing the help of a professional counsellor to conduct an intervention meeting in the
presence of all those concerned could be the solution you seek.
In fact, by intervening without the help of a professional counsellor you could risk
making the situation even worse. The addiction has likely taken over your friend or
loved one’s ability to rationally deal with your concerns and without the help of a
professional, resistance is likely to arise.
According to current statistics, 90 percent of interventions staged by friends and family
finish successfully – but only with the help of an intervention specialist. Further studies
reveal that the addict in question is up to five times more likely to agree to enter a
rehabilitation program when an intervention specialist is present. It is believed this is
due to them believing they ought to conform or act in a certain way. However, it is also
widely accepted that having an addiction industry professional present indicates the
severity of their addiction, the amount the family cares for the addict, and the lengths
they are willing to go to for the addict in question to enter treatment.
Ultimately, guidance from a professional interventionist should be sought if the addict in
the question has one of the following criteria:
- Is expressing depressive or suicidal behaviour or emotions
- Is using several mood-altering prescription drugs
- Has a previous violent/aggressive history of behaviour
- Has moderate to severe issues with mental health
How to Successfully Stage an Intervention in Canada
Below, we have provided some useful guidelines to bear in mind when planning and
organizing an intervention. Each situation will vary from person to person, but the main
the thing to bear in mind is what will be the most effective method of getting your loved one
who is suffering into the correct treatment.
A good and well-tested action plan consists of:
- Intervention Specialist: You can hire what is known as an intervention specialist
to help you plan and execute your intervention. They have the training required to
ensure that the intervention will have the highest chance of success possible and
will know how to diffuse a potentially hostile situation. While an intervention
specialist is not necessarily required, it is highly recommended
- Form Your Group: After you have your specialist, you will want to consider who
you want to be a part of the intervention group; the specialist should be able to
help you figure this out. Start by figuring out approximately how many people you
want there and then consider who you want. It should be people close enough to
the person to get a response, but not someone that would immediately put them
on the defence.
- Learn and Rehearse: Once you have the group, start to plan out what you are
each going to say and when, and then practice, practice, practice. When it comes
time for the intervention, you do not want to appear jumbled, unprepared, and
chaotic. Practicing the order and structure of the intervention will not only make
you appear calmer and more understanding of the addict in question. It will also
help boost your confidence which may be much needed when approaching such
an emotionally charged subject as your loved one’s addiction.
- Choose an Intervention Place and Time: As far as to place, you generally want
to pick a neutral territory. If you go into their space, they may feel as if you have
intruded, but they also may not be comfortable in your space. Ideally, pick a
place where the person in question cannot run away when confronted (i.e. to
their bedroom or bathroom.) But it is also essential that they are not in a place
where they feel they will be overheard by strangers (in public) or where they may
be at risk to others or themselves (near a busy road.) Time-wise, it depends on
everyone’s schedules, but you should consider making it a priority, even if you
have to move other things around. Remember the ultimate goal is to get your loved one into recovery, the whole intervention should be orchestrated around
that. You must find the right time when the person in question is sober. This is so
that they can fully take on board what you are saying, and also it eliminates the
risk of them becoming violent, aggressive, or dangerous to themselves while
intoxicated or high.
- Be Prepared for Anything: The intervention could go any number of ways, and
you should be prepared for that. Be prepared for what the next steps will be if
they are receptive and what your next steps will be if they are not. Also, have a
plan in place in case things get hostile.
How Do I Make an Intervention Most Effective?
Below is an outline of the key things to remember when staging an intervention. These
guidelines should be adhered to at all times, to ensure the right message is being
portrayed to the one who is addicted, and that the best possible outcome is obtained:
- Do not make the meeting a time the person is generally highly stressed
- Do not yell or make the addict feel ashamed
- Be specific when you are explaining how the addict’s choices have affected you
- Keep to the point. Avoid rambling
- Follow through with what you say. For example, if you say you are going to stop giving
them money, do so
What Are the Main Stages of an Intervention?
There are three stages to an intervention meeting which we have outlined below:
1. Pre-intervention meeting
Before the meeting begins our counsellor will meet with you to ensure he or she
understands the addict’s addiction history and any special circumstances which must be
dealt with during the intervention meeting.
- The counsellor gathers notes on:
- The history surrounding the addiction
- The temperament of the addict concerned
- Addiction and non-addiction-related health concerns
- Information of each attendee including information on their relationship with the addict
- Any other relevant information
2. During the meeting
During the intervention, each person present will gain an opportunity to voice their
feelings. The mood of the meeting will be positive. Negative feelings such as blame,
guilt, and intolerance will be avoided throughout. Instead, the meeting will focus on a
positive and supportive environment that is conducive to change.
3. Action plan for change after the meeting
Andy Bhatti Interventions and Addictions Services team carries out intervention
meetings throughout Canada. Professional intervention is often the first milestone in the
addict’s long-term recovery plan. During the conclusion of the meeting, the counsellor
will re-iterate what was covered during the meeting and a rehabilitation action plan will
be drawn up. Typically by the conclusion of the meeting, the addict will recognize he or
she has a problem.
If your intervention goes well, the person should agree to get help, but if they do, you
must act quickly before they have too much time to change their mind.
It is important to find a good treatment program before the intervention takes place so
that your loved one can begin treatment as soon as possible after the intervention is
over. This will reduce the chance of them changing their mind as a plan has already
What Should I Say During an Intervention?
During an intervention, each person should take a turn explaining how the addiction is
affecting them personally, how they see the addiction affecting the addict, and list out
any worries/grievances in a calm, non-aggressive way. If done right, an intervention can
be a great time for not only the addict to get help, but for other people to get some relief.
The general tone acquired by those staging the intervention should at all times be calm,
collected, and understanding.
Below we have listed some useful phrases that have worked well during interventions in
It is a good idea to work these sentences into the intervention plan, to remind the one
who is struggling with addiction that it is not their fault, and that help is available:
- “You have done so much for me, us, our family. Now let us help you”
- “I care and I love you”
- “I’m worried about the effect your problem will have on our children and our family”
- “I am always here for you, and I will be through every step”
- “There is help out there and we will get through this”
- “Addiction is an illness, and I am here to help you get better”
What Should I Not Say During an Intervention?
There are two main things you want to avoid when implementing an intervention. First of
all, you do not want to have a spontaneous intervention as generally, that leads to many
different things going wrong. There may be moments when no one knows what to say
or moments when someone says something a little too aggressively.
Second, though you do want to appear serious, you do not want to appear as if you are
attacking the person, as then they will very quickly become defensive, and you will
probably get nowhere.
Phrases to avoid that are easily uttered under pressure or emotional difficulty are:
- “This is all your fault”
- “Can’t you see the damage you’ve done?”
- “Useless drunk” or “hopeless druggie”
- “Only you can do this on your own”
As a general rule, avoid negative language and focus on their failures as this will only
exacerbate the situation or their addiction. Avoid using labels or hurtful names and
terminology as this will only incur a feeling of shame and guilt.
What Should I Do If an Intervention Goes Wrong?
Interventions can go wrong – and some do. The most important thing is to ensure the
safety of yourself, the members of the group, and the addict. If things seem to be taking
an aggressive or dangerous turn, do not hesitate to call the police and get them
involved. While it may not be what you want to do, it can be necessary to ensure
everyone stays safe.
Statistically, hiring an intervention specialist results in the best possible outcome:
meaning, your chances of a successful intervention drastically increase if there is a
professional interventionist present to help steer the meeting.
These experts have been trained in conflict resolution, calming down potentially
aggressive situations, and can help remind those involved of the key elements of an
Of course, interventions do not always work as emotions are generally running high.
When that happens, you should be aware that sometimes communication will get cut off
for a period of time. Sometimes an addict may respond angrily or as if they have been
insulted, and they often cut people out of their lives for a while.
This can incur feelings of guilt and hurt in those who were only trying to help. However,
you must remember that their reaction is part of their addiction, and your actions only
came from a place of love and compassion. You are not a bad person for bringing up
emotional or unpleasant concepts in the addict’s life. If your intervention does not go as
planned, try thinking of ways you can improve the next one. An intervention specialist
will assuredly help you with this.
Seven Myths About Intervention
Interventions are commonly seen on TV shows and are often perceived as life-changing
ultimatums or profound moments in a family’s life. While interventions are life-changing
and do have a profound effect on an addict’s future, there are common misconceptions
surrounding these meetings which we hope to dispel.
The following seven notions are myths that people commonly believe, but are not true:
- You should wait until a person hits rock bottom before intervening
- If an addict is strong enough, they can get sober
- If rehab failed once, it will fail again
- Addicts do not have good morals
- Addicts will end relationships with those who try to intervene
- Intervention should be staged when the addict is under the influence
- Only family and friends should be involved
Start the Intervention Process Today!
If an intervention is successful, an addict will enter a treatment plan, but how do you
help them then? In most treatment programs, they will have access to lots of
professionals to help them work through their issues.
If you can simply continue to support them, but also as they go through the process, it is
okay to need to talk to them and even get upset with them about how their addiction
affected you. Dealing with that will help your relationship heal.
At Andy Bhatti Interventions and Addiction Services, we run intervention meetings
Let us help you. Contact us today for your consultation on intervention services or
addiction treatment programs in Canada. Our professional addiction interventionists in
Canada can help you save your loved one’s life. Our interventionists aren’t just highly
trained, educated intervention specialists, they also all have lived experience with
addiction, trauma, and alcoholism. Our interventions are successful and they help save
lives. We can help make a difference in a successful intervention.
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